one question that can never be agreed over

I don't really think gender matters, but more you age, looks, personality, economy, family, friends, etc. makes it. People classify each other by genders too much. >.>

gender is  from last century...

nowdays its more looks/ friends/ clothes/ maybe brain power ... etc

still i say its harder for guys... atleast from where i stand it is... (M)

When you work in my line of work, its much harder to be a female. Every single males sees you as lesser than them, every single male expects you to, not earn your promotion the hard way, but earn it... "Laying on your back" if you understand what I mean.

Plus, we don't have the same opportunities as males do and its said plainly "Females can't have that job/attend that school/take that training."
Its not just my type of job either, its in any sort of Law enforcement/Hostpital/ a whole lot of other jobs.
No male should ever complain about their lives being hard or there not being any sort of opportunity for them. Sexism is real and until you graduate High School/College, you don't know quite how real it is.
/rant
Lol... just had to get it off my chest.

"if you dont have a pair, life isnt fair"

i'll let that ambigious phrase be my answer XD

Boys will say boys and girls will say girls. (Whats the point)
Without  saying reasons it's pretty obvious boys have the harder life, but it really depends on how much money you have to spend to make it easier.

I can't tell, also women are ill considered (I'm going to blame religion), but it seems to be changing. I, being a lawyer, will notice that I have never had a female client, which could mean that 1) they don't have the money to afford it or 2) They don't commit crimes. This may seem good for women, but hardly any prosecutor/lawyer/judge is a woman. Of course, you could blame men, but some women choose to not work. I personnaly treat women and men the same, but I know that other people odn't. (Kepp in mind that women can also be sexist towards men, accusing us of being violent and stuff. Not that men aren't sexist.)

Life is what you make it. In the words of Jason Ellis "Harden the f*ck up!"

Thing is. All males were female before they became male. (has something to do with chromosomes). And women when compared to men. Have never known a history of war. Women are by far superior in mind. They do not have pride issue's and can solve conflicts easily. While men have the common 'i'm right your wrong' fights with each other 99% of the time if its religion or politics. Men are inferior and retarded in comparison to females.

Now ask yourself this. How would you feel if you lived between retards 24/7 pretending to be smarter than you. And telling you to go do the dishes
or bend over if you want a good job? Lol. I've been working with alot of women. (male nurse) and I just realised all of this.

The worst feeling possible is the feeling you don't belong. And this is really a man's world. :/ earth would be a paradise if women were in charge.

Edit: sexism is when a male A touches female B innapropriately and tells her thats all she's worth for.

Sexism is also a feminist group calling all males abusive pigs.

fikoko|2011-02-25 18:23:23

The worst feeling possible is the feeling you don't belong. And this is really a man's world. :/ earth would be a paradise if women were in charge.

Before christianity women were sacred, because every man comes from a woman. Right now, it feels like men are sacred. Hopefully, one day, everyone will be sacred.

There's gonna be a lot of generalizing in this topic...

Guys have it easier. Especially 3 weeks out of the month.

But I've met far more sexist women than I've met sexist males.

fennecer|2011-03-03 23:04:56

There's gonna be a lot of generalizing in this topic...

Guys have it easier. Especially 3 weeks out of the month.

But I've met far more sexist women than I've met sexist males.

very true

i feel as if sexism doesn't show up or at least where i'm from. "Well you don't know unless your a girl", most people would say but honestly girls are the only ones i see getting compliments, not getting ripped on cause the like the same gender, getting free food, getting doors held for them, living off someone elses money, and other things

i feel as if a lot of women when making this argument forget to look at the positives of being a woman, and the negatives of being a guy.

and in addition even if someone is sexist, which is a rarity, proove them wrong and stop letting it work against you

i deal with racist people all the time, hell half the trustees at my school are racist and doubted me before i gave a speech in front of them. A lot of people are still openly racist and i still deal with it not use it as an excuse as to why i didnt make this or do that

Something I heard on TV last night

Men have it harder than women because men only have one option in life, work, whereas women have two, they can either work or find someone to support them.

I have a point for both arguments

1. In Dofus guys like to make female players. Why? Because they think the game would be easier if your a female. WEEEEEELL YOUR RONG
Cause girls go through alot more...stuff than guys. The change diferently and also have hardly any self confidence. THESE DAYS girls all think 'Aww im so fat! Im so ugly! Im so single!' but guys dont seem to bother as much...

2. Guys do all the labour. If there was a spider on the wall of my house i would
a. Scream and run away (Arachnaphobia, i hate having it especially when Arachnees crawl around on dofus and i relog immediantly sometimes :/)
b. Get a guy to kill it for me
And also who would paint your house, fix the sink, build a treehouse, mow the lawn etc when a guy isnt around? Thats why single mothers struggle

I would like to point out that culture has an immense effect on gender.

In countries such as India, life is much harder for women than it is for men. Women go through a lot, they face many more problems than men otherwise do.
Some of you have already pointed this out in your posts by giving examples, so I'll refrain from being redundant by giving more practical examples.

What fikoko said is very true. Few men realize just how stupid their pride sometimes make them appear.

In my country, where women are still considered inferior and not treated with equality, life is much much harder for them.
This point you won't realize until you have observed how much culture matters and affects the life of people and their way of thinking.

Most Americans won't even understand what I'm saying.

This answer is from a guy, which would be me.

Anyways I think girls have it much difficult than the guys. Girls go through periods many time, must go through pregnancy, and etc. All guys ever have to worry about is getting kicked in a certain spot.

I'd have to say a girl because of peroids wastes some money. (sorry girls)

females raepd ratio versus males raepd.
Nuff said.

Eternalvision|2011-03-19 06:41:06

females raepd ratio versus males raepd.
Nuff said.

guy to girl suicide rate?
4:1

Alissiya|2011-02-16 14:22:27

When you work in my line of work, its much harder to be a female. Every single males sees you as lesser than them, every single male expects you to, not earn your promotion the hard way, but earn it... "Laying on your back" if you understand what I mean.

Plus, we don't have the same opportunities as males do and its said plainly "Females can't have that job/attend that school/take that training."
Its not just my type of job either, its in any sort of Law enforcement/Hostpital/ a whole lot of other jobs.
No male should ever complain about their lives being hard or there not being any sort of opportunity for them. Sexism is real and until you graduate High School/College, you don't know quite how real it is.
/rant
Lol... just had to get it off my chest.

Life is a lot easier, a LOT easier to girls. If you have a hard time beeing a girl, belive me being a boy is 100 times harder.

- Girls smile two times, put on something provocative, and the job/deal/promotion is theirs. Man don't have this weapons.
- Male perceive Male as concurrence, and generally don't perceive Feemales as concurrence, often not the case, and not the other way around. So in any situation Males have more opponents then the Females.
- Females tend to be more social/friendly between each olther, while Male perceive Male generally as opponents, and are agressive. So Females have higher social network power, social intelligence and relational power, and the hudge benefits from this.
- The society is generally more hostile to male than to the females.
- Ever wondered why on earth male have 10-15 years of life expectancy less than females?
Its not a rant, its few facts to make you think twice before you adress male ah having an easy life.